In Our Own Way
The mystery of sexual attraction is in being wonderfully accepting of and interested in different body types, different ages, different origins, different levels of what society might or might not define as beauty.
People seek variety, new experiences. People are attracted to people. People of different types bond over interests, stories, a laugh, curiosity, shared travel experiences, love for a video game or a hobby, something nerdy, anything, even just a je ne sais quoi sexual spark or attraction.
The sparks that ignite sexual interest are diverse.
When we choose one or more partners, we are intimate together because of who we are with each other, what clicks in our sexual minds and souls, or even just a mutual comfort or curiosity, wanting to share an experience. The brain is a heck of a sex organ.
There are so many things that can define sexiness at any moment, so may things large, small, and tiny that can ignite desire. So many intangible things as well, a vibe, a feeling. A desire to explore. Anything.
Sometimes exploration is a revelation.
Understanding that sexy comes in many forms, the spirit of these sparks as explored above opens all kinds of possibilities.
Think of the many popular singers who don’t have technically-great voices, but where the character, the flavor of their voice makes them a great singer, a superstar.
We are all superstars, in our own way.
Story Note:
I’ve previously written a meditation on the Mom-bod, and what makes Mom-bods (and Dad-Bods) great… and I wanted to expound on the greater universe.